Today we’re going to talk about memory and expressions that are connected to it. In short, we are going to talk about Memory Words.
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For example, Remember, Memorize, and Remind.
“Memory” is a Noun. Its Verb is “Memorize.”
So “Memory” is different from the other 3 words. The other 3 words are all Verbs:
What’s the difference between these 3 words?
Let’s start with “Remember.”
“Remember” is a very common word. It has at least 2 meanings:
(1) to have an image in your mind of people, events, places, etc. from the past
Do you remember her?
I remember going to the zoo with my cousin when I was young.
(2) to bring information that you know into your mind, or something that you must do
Please remember to turn off the computer after you finish.
We should remember what time his flight’s arriving.
If you notice, the first meaning is kind of passive, involuntary or automatic. Because the image or picture (the memory) comes to your mind.
Here are more examples:
I remember my trip to Europe.
I can still remember what her favorite perfume is.
On the other hand, the second meaning is more active and voluntary. In other words, it's your choice because you bring the memory into your mind.
Take a look:
I should remember to bring an umbrella.
You don’t need to remember everything he says.
Adverbs usually paired with “Remember” :
remember something + | well |
| distinctly |
| vividly |
| clearly |
| vaguely |
| dimly |
| rightly |
| correctly |
As far as I can remember = We use this expression to tell somebody what we remember of a situation
Ex. As far as I can remember, you didn’t want to help us.
For as long as I can remember = This means for a very long time
Ex. They’ve hated each other for as long as I can remember.
Next, let’s talk about “Memorize.”
The Verb “Memorize” has an active meaning. So “Memorize” and the second meaning of “Remember” are similar.
But they are not the same.
We use “Memorize” to talk especially about learning. In fact, “Memorize” means to learn something so that you know it perfectly.
When I was in elementary school, we memorized many English poems.
As an actor, he is good at memorizing lines (dialogues).
It’s not good to mix up “Memorize” and “Remember” like some students do:
I should memorize her name. = X
I should remember her name. = Ok
Do you memorize the way to the station? = X
Do you remember the way to the station? = Ok
It’s grammatically correct to say:
I will memorize her birthday.
But this means you are very actively trying to learn and put the information into your memory. Perhaps by repeating her birthday to yourself 100 times.
So, although it’s grammatical, it doesn’t sound so natural. It’s enough to say:
I will remember her birthday. = Ok
Finally, please use the word “Memorize” in situations of learning and heavy information.
At first, “Remind” appears very similar to “Remember” so it seems difficult to know the difference. Not really.
Most importantly, you have to know that “Remind” is a Transitive Verb only.
What's a Transitive Verb?
A Transitive Verb is a kind of Verb that always needs an Object. It can’t stand alone.
See for yourself. What do you think about our sentences below?
#1. I like.
#2. He sent to Cynthia.
#3. Let’s make!
If you feel that there’s something strange about our sentences, then you are right. In fact, all 3 sentences above are wrong.
#1. I like. = X
#2. He sent to Cynthia. = X
#3. Let’s make. = X
If you want to make them correct, you should add Objects:
#1. I like it. = Ok
#2. He sent the message to Cynthia. = Ok
#3. Let’s make coffee. = Ok
All the Main Verbs above (like, send, and make) are what we call Transitive Verbs. They must always have an Object after them.
The word “Remind” is like them. It is also a Transitive Verb.
(If you’d like to learn Transitive and Intransitive Verbs, please watch this video:
Because “Remind” is a Transitive Verb, every time you want to use it, you should follow these formulas:
#1. Remind + somebody + of / about + something
#2. Remind + somebody + that + S + V
#3. Remind + somebody + to + Verb
I have to remind Teddy about our trip.
She reminded them that they have to pay for the damage .
Please remind me to call Susan.
As you can see from our examples, when you want to use “Remind,” you should always put somebody (Object) after it.
In fact, the meaning of “Remind” is to help someone to remember something that he must do.
You can’t use “Remind” alone. Unlike “Remember.”
Take a look:
Oh, I remember! = Ok
Oh, I remind! = X
I should remember this. = Ok
I should remind this. = X
There is one last formula that we can use for “Remind” :
Remind + somebody + of + something
This is a little different from the first ones because it means to make someone remember someone or something in the past.
The young girl reminds me of her mother.
This souvenir reminds me of my trip to Africa.
The view reminded them of their hometown.
There are also some expressions that you can use “Remind” in.
Don’t remind me = This expression is used in spoken English and in a joking way. We say this when somebody mentions something that is embarrassing or annoying for us.
A: Hey, I heard about last night.
B: Oh, don’t remind me.
A: Don’t you have that job interview tomorrow?
B: Don’t remind me.
That reminds me = This is another expression used in spoken English. We use this when somebody says or does something that helps us to remember something we are going to say or do
Oh, that reminds me, I saw Alex at work today.
That reminds me. I’d better recharge my camera for the trip tomorrow.
Let me / May I remind you… = This expression is a bit formal. It is used as a form of emphasis that we add to our warning or negative comment
Let me remind you that you cannot be absent again.
Hope You Learned Something!